10 Tips For Winning Him Over (4 of 6)

Don’t share everything about yourself right away

Although you obviously want him to know who you are, you don’t want to spend the first or even second date overwhelming him with information about every facet of your life. Instead, you should reveal your story bit by bit so that he keeps coming back for more. 

Don’t try too hard

When getting to know somebody, there is a tendency to want to please them by laughing at every joke or pretending to be intrigued by every word that comes out of their mouth. A lot of guys can tell if you’re acting a way just to make them want to like you. Just act natural. If you find something funny or enjoy a story, let them know. But if you don’t, tactfully steer the conversation in a different direction.