Love can make us do strange things, which is not too surprising since being in love impacts us on every level. It is easy to become so wrapped up in your significant other that you become possessive, or even dangerous and abusive. All of these complex intricacies of love can really do a number on the psyche and leave you feeling pretty outside of yourself. You are secretly trying to trap him. Have you ever considered skipping your birth control, or compromising protection during sex — all in a ploy to keep him around? You have personally deleted photos of his ex. This is a clear indication that you view him with ownership, as if he is your property.