Women Who Initiate Are More Likely to Catch a Guy’s Attention (2 of 5)

Women do not have to wait for an eligible man to come their way

Based on activity on most dating sites, men typically send more messages than women do. This is based on a concept called fishing, which means that the more messages you send, the more likely you are to get someone’s attention eventually. But quality is not the same as quantity. And if women took matters into their own hands, they would not have to wait for some guy to contact them, who may just be looking to gain as many options as he can. This could indicate that the guy would likely not be that sincere even if you do match with him, especially if he is only concerned with increasing his odds of landing a date and not necessarily with how compatible he is with you or any other woman he matches with.