What Is He Thinking: 7 Possibilities When You’re Kissing (2 of 5)

He’s wondering if you like how he kisses

As worried as you might be about whether he thinks you’re a good kisser, you can be certain that he’s hoping you’re just as turned on. Men have egos that need to be massaged, after all. They feel just as self-conscious and even insecure during moments of intimacy. He knows he’s got a good thing going, and the last thing he wants is for you to find his kissing techniques to be boring and uninspired. 

He’s trying to gauge how far you’re willing to go

Making out with him is a sure sign that you’re attracted to him. With this knowledge, he’s no doubt wondering what the boundaries are. To be clear, you get to decide where to take this, as he is not entitled to anything. If you feel comfortable signaling to him that you’re down for some “extracurricular” activities, go for it. On the other hand, if you’re content with the act of French kissing and nothing beyond that, he should be too.