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Love can make us do strange things, which is not too surprising since being in love impacts us on every level. It is easy to become so wrapped up in your significant other that you become possessive, or even dangerous and abusive. All of these complex intricacies of love can really do a number on the psyche and leave you feeling pretty outside of yourself. You are secretly trying to trap him. Have you ever considered skipping your birth control, or compromising protection during sex — all in a ploy to keep him around? You have personally deleted photos of his ex. This is a clear indication that you view him with ownership, as if he is your property.

You might be attracted to him, but it doesn't mean you should just throw yourself at him. Play it cool; hint that you are open to his advances, but create enough distance that makes it clear he has to work to win your heart. Meet face to face so he sees you as more than just somebody to send a message to when he’s feeling bored. If he finds you impossible to resist, it definitely opens the doors to a relationship. Don’t ditch your friends for him. Continue with your regular social routine while making him earn his time with you. The time you do spend with each other will become more valuable as a result.